Today i was lying on the hospital bed...bht chije dimag me aa rhi thi dar b rha tha bht..
Baki ye wo time hota h jb aap bht chije sochte ho bht chije aapke dimag me chlti h..
Aaj important din the mere liye bht...aaj bht chije sochne ko mili...us soch ka ek roop...
Pyar aapko majboot bnata hai...jb pyar aapko kamjor bnane lgey toh smjho kch galat hai...pyar me aap galtiya b kr skte ho lekin kmjor bnna shi ni h..ye pyar kya smjhta h khud ki usne apne pyar ko bht khushi di toh aaj usey usko rulane ka haq mil gya...usey akela chor dene ka haq mil gya..nhi..bilkul nhi..
Sare readers ko ek baat khni h ye pyar h khel nhi jo aap ek din aate ho or keh dete ho feelings ni rhi..arey gussa samne wale insan ko gussa dila skta h feeling kaise khtm kr skta hai bhyi..
For example maan lijiye mai apne papa se bht pyar krta hu wo mjhpe kisi baat pe bht gussa krte h aisi baat pe jisme meri koi galti ni rhti toh mjhe unpe obviously gussa aaega..lekin jra aap sb sochiyega kya mai unse pyar krna bnd kr dunga nhi na..es umeed me jrur rhunga ki papa aaye mjhse maafi maangey..mjhe mnaye ha ye unka farz h lekin kya aapko ni lgta unhe maaf krke gla lga lena b mera farz h...kaise khtm ho jaegi feelings....or aise khtm honi hoti toh koi beta apne baap se pyar ni kr pata qki har baap ne kbhi na kbhi apne bete pe gussa kiya hota hai..
Toh fir ye logic hum us pyare rishte pe q lga dete h jo humne khud bnaya hota h??
Q jb sb kch shi hota h toh wo insan perfect rhta h or jb wo khud pe thoda control na kr paye toh wo insan galat ho jata?
Hmara maapne ka tarika itna chota kaise ho skta h??
Jis pyar me ek samay hum kch b krne ko tyaar hote h bdey bdey vaade krte h ki hmesha tumhara sath dunga ya dungi toh q kisi ek insan ki galti pr hum usey ye keh dete h khtm kro yr ab sch me wo wali feelings nhi h...
Jb tk sb shi tha tb tk aap shi thay toh kha gya wo unlimited pyar jo har relationship ki shruat me hota hai....q insan ko dheere dheere whi chije napasand hone lgti hai...
Jb aap maa baap se jhut bol kr kisi se milne jate ho wo b bht khushi khushi toh aap kaise ek breakup jaise chote shabd se khud ko rok lete ho...kya ye breakup shbd aapke maa baap se bdh kr hai..?
Bilkul nhi bs frk ye h ab aap judge krne lgey ho..or aise hi log es kahavat ko bdhawa dete h ki pyar andha hota hai...
Bt let me remind uh....it to the entire youth jo khta h ki mai usse bht pyar krta hu...pyar bilkul andha nhi hota h..pyar bht smjhdar hota hai...pyar wo hota h jb koi apni mahine ki tution fees apni gf ke hath me la kr rkh deta h or khta h ab tumhe mahine ka khrcha chlana h...kya aap kbhi kaise keh skte ho aisa pyar andha ho skta h...pyar wo hota h jb aapki jeb me ek rupya na ho toh ladki khey mjhe bhuk ni h...jo aap usey na dila pao wo khey mjhe ye psnd ni h...aisa pyar kaise andha ho skta hai..
Lekin aaj kl ke hum log esko apne according lene lgey...aap sb ko ek baat khna chahta hu pyar me agr kisi pe gussa krna galat h toh us gusse ke chakkar me feelings khtm kr lena man se bhi utna hi galat h...
Acha btao relationship me aane se phle kya aap me se kisi ne bhi kbhi koi bond sign kiya tha kya ki agr tum gussa kroge toh mere man se pyar khtm ho jaega..tb toh bda emotiinal ho ke aap sb ne keh diya hoga nhi babu tum jaise b rhoge tumse mai itna hi pyar krungi..now think did uh really justify ur statement...hum insan aise kaise ho jate h jo apni baat shi ni kr pate...hum sb ko kl ko upar jana..jo b aise feelings khtm kr deta h wo bs apni aankh bnd krle...or soche agr kl upar wala puche ki usne gussa kiya tumpe wo galat h bilkul lekin tumne feelings khtm kr li kya wo shi h??
Kya aap justify kr do ge apne jwab ko..
Agr haa toh jab mai 7 saal ka tha mere papa ne mjhe thappad mara tha us din nafrat kr leni chahiye thi mjhe...lekin mai toh aaj b bht pyar krta hu unse..ab jada intellectual log aaenge or khenge maa baap ka pyar alga hota h let me tell uh frnd last blog me b smjhaya tha ki pyar pyar hota h bs frk pta h kya hai ki jis din se hum rishte me aate h jo sbke liye bht pyara dono log ek dusre se beintha pyar krte hai us rishte me hum hmesha ek option lekr chlte h ki agr kch b galat hua toh kya ho gya breakup toh hai hi breakup kr lenge..feeling khtm kr lenge...frnds asli prblm ye option hi hai..maan lijiye khaskar ladkiya ki aaj jis baat pe aap apne bf ko chor deti ho kya itni hi asani se kl ko aap apne husband ko chor doge bilkul nhi...kya maa baap ko chor dege bilkul nhi...or chor b diya toh wo ek baar pyar se khenge aap wapas aa jaoge...
Aap sbse ek sawal or bht valid sawal h en rishto me q nhi breakup or feelings khtm ho jana aise concept hote hai..
Let imagine baap ne bete ko thappad mara bete ne kha baap i want breakup suna h kbhi aisa nhi na...fir us pyare rishte me aap q leke aa jate ho jo aapne khud bnaya h...agr wo rishta ek makan h toh uski ek eit eit aapne khud lgayi hai...
Hum sb khte h society es relationship ko galat smjhti h lekin hume smjhna pdega prblm hum me hi hai..koi maa baap uske bcho ko khush hi dekhna chahte h or unki khushi ke liye wo kch b kr dete h...toh wo es rishte ko galat esliye smjhte h qki hum jo man me phle din se option bna kr baidhe h feelings khtm kr lene ka..maa baap darte h kya pta kis din aaye or khey wo rishta khtm kr diya maine...aap sbko ek suggestions h chahe kch b ho jaye apne man se chije khtm krne ka option hta kr dekho tb dekhna life kitni easy ho jati h...jb pyar ke bdle pyar toh gusse ke bdle gussa hi hona chahiye....hum log khud esko ganda bna dete h ye keh ke ki ab wo feelings ni rhi....mera ye view h ki agr maine kisi se pyar kiya h toh last tk krunga chahe wo sath ho ya na ho..
" Ye sb likhne ka sirf ek reason es bhul ki wajah se mai apni life ka sbse pyara rishta toh nhi bcha paya lekin aap sb readers se hath jod ke request h apna rishta bcha lena..rishte bazar me nhi milte h qki...mai haar gya hu lekin jo jo es ko pdh kr jeetega mjhe uski jeet me khud ki jeet nazar aaegi..
Aaj jb mai bimar tha toh umeed tha ki ek no. Hoga aisa jo mjhe baar fone fone krega preshan hoga mere liye...lekin jis insan se mai ye chah rha tha usne kiya b ....lekin na jane q aaj uske preshan hone me wo baat nhi thi..wo mza nhi tha...ha agr mai galat hu toh maaf krna...whi dusri traf ek aisa insan tha jisko mai nhi mna rha tha ki fone krey us insan ko b pta tha ki wo meri phli priority nhi h fir b usne aisa dikhaya ki mai uski phli priority...or mai uske liye likh rha hu usko toh ye b ni btaunga....khair ye difference of priority ho skti h..
Ek insan ne thoda sa dikhaya usey chinta h meri or ek insan ne bht dikhaya fir b mjhe intzar us thode se care ki thi...mere liye uski value bht jada thi....or shyd yhi hoti h feelings....bs yhi...
Baki ye wo time hota h jb aap bht chije sochte ho bht chije aapke dimag me chlti h..
Aaj important din the mere liye bht...aaj bht chije sochne ko mili...us soch ka ek roop...
Pyar aapko majboot bnata hai...jb pyar aapko kamjor bnane lgey toh smjho kch galat hai...pyar me aap galtiya b kr skte ho lekin kmjor bnna shi ni h..ye pyar kya smjhta h khud ki usne apne pyar ko bht khushi di toh aaj usey usko rulane ka haq mil gya...usey akela chor dene ka haq mil gya..nhi..bilkul nhi..
Sare readers ko ek baat khni h ye pyar h khel nhi jo aap ek din aate ho or keh dete ho feelings ni rhi..arey gussa samne wale insan ko gussa dila skta h feeling kaise khtm kr skta hai bhyi..
For example maan lijiye mai apne papa se bht pyar krta hu wo mjhpe kisi baat pe bht gussa krte h aisi baat pe jisme meri koi galti ni rhti toh mjhe unpe obviously gussa aaega..lekin jra aap sb sochiyega kya mai unse pyar krna bnd kr dunga nhi na..es umeed me jrur rhunga ki papa aaye mjhse maafi maangey..mjhe mnaye ha ye unka farz h lekin kya aapko ni lgta unhe maaf krke gla lga lena b mera farz h...kaise khtm ho jaegi feelings....or aise khtm honi hoti toh koi beta apne baap se pyar ni kr pata qki har baap ne kbhi na kbhi apne bete pe gussa kiya hota hai..
Toh fir ye logic hum us pyare rishte pe q lga dete h jo humne khud bnaya hota h??
Q jb sb kch shi hota h toh wo insan perfect rhta h or jb wo khud pe thoda control na kr paye toh wo insan galat ho jata?
Hmara maapne ka tarika itna chota kaise ho skta h??
Jis pyar me ek samay hum kch b krne ko tyaar hote h bdey bdey vaade krte h ki hmesha tumhara sath dunga ya dungi toh q kisi ek insan ki galti pr hum usey ye keh dete h khtm kro yr ab sch me wo wali feelings nhi h...
Jb tk sb shi tha tb tk aap shi thay toh kha gya wo unlimited pyar jo har relationship ki shruat me hota hai....q insan ko dheere dheere whi chije napasand hone lgti hai...
Jb aap maa baap se jhut bol kr kisi se milne jate ho wo b bht khushi khushi toh aap kaise ek breakup jaise chote shabd se khud ko rok lete ho...kya ye breakup shbd aapke maa baap se bdh kr hai..?
Bilkul nhi bs frk ye h ab aap judge krne lgey ho..or aise hi log es kahavat ko bdhawa dete h ki pyar andha hota hai...
Bt let me remind uh....it to the entire youth jo khta h ki mai usse bht pyar krta hu...pyar bilkul andha nhi hota h..pyar bht smjhdar hota hai...pyar wo hota h jb koi apni mahine ki tution fees apni gf ke hath me la kr rkh deta h or khta h ab tumhe mahine ka khrcha chlana h...kya aap kbhi kaise keh skte ho aisa pyar andha ho skta h...pyar wo hota h jb aapki jeb me ek rupya na ho toh ladki khey mjhe bhuk ni h...jo aap usey na dila pao wo khey mjhe ye psnd ni h...aisa pyar kaise andha ho skta hai..
Lekin aaj kl ke hum log esko apne according lene lgey...aap sb ko ek baat khna chahta hu pyar me agr kisi pe gussa krna galat h toh us gusse ke chakkar me feelings khtm kr lena man se bhi utna hi galat h...
Acha btao relationship me aane se phle kya aap me se kisi ne bhi kbhi koi bond sign kiya tha kya ki agr tum gussa kroge toh mere man se pyar khtm ho jaega..tb toh bda emotiinal ho ke aap sb ne keh diya hoga nhi babu tum jaise b rhoge tumse mai itna hi pyar krungi..now think did uh really justify ur statement...hum insan aise kaise ho jate h jo apni baat shi ni kr pate...hum sb ko kl ko upar jana..jo b aise feelings khtm kr deta h wo bs apni aankh bnd krle...or soche agr kl upar wala puche ki usne gussa kiya tumpe wo galat h bilkul lekin tumne feelings khtm kr li kya wo shi h??
Kya aap justify kr do ge apne jwab ko..
Agr haa toh jab mai 7 saal ka tha mere papa ne mjhe thappad mara tha us din nafrat kr leni chahiye thi mjhe...lekin mai toh aaj b bht pyar krta hu unse..ab jada intellectual log aaenge or khenge maa baap ka pyar alga hota h let me tell uh frnd last blog me b smjhaya tha ki pyar pyar hota h bs frk pta h kya hai ki jis din se hum rishte me aate h jo sbke liye bht pyara dono log ek dusre se beintha pyar krte hai us rishte me hum hmesha ek option lekr chlte h ki agr kch b galat hua toh kya ho gya breakup toh hai hi breakup kr lenge..feeling khtm kr lenge...frnds asli prblm ye option hi hai..maan lijiye khaskar ladkiya ki aaj jis baat pe aap apne bf ko chor deti ho kya itni hi asani se kl ko aap apne husband ko chor doge bilkul nhi...kya maa baap ko chor dege bilkul nhi...or chor b diya toh wo ek baar pyar se khenge aap wapas aa jaoge...
Aap sbse ek sawal or bht valid sawal h en rishto me q nhi breakup or feelings khtm ho jana aise concept hote hai..
Let imagine baap ne bete ko thappad mara bete ne kha baap i want breakup suna h kbhi aisa nhi na...fir us pyare rishte me aap q leke aa jate ho jo aapne khud bnaya h...agr wo rishta ek makan h toh uski ek eit eit aapne khud lgayi hai...
Hum sb khte h society es relationship ko galat smjhti h lekin hume smjhna pdega prblm hum me hi hai..koi maa baap uske bcho ko khush hi dekhna chahte h or unki khushi ke liye wo kch b kr dete h...toh wo es rishte ko galat esliye smjhte h qki hum jo man me phle din se option bna kr baidhe h feelings khtm kr lene ka..maa baap darte h kya pta kis din aaye or khey wo rishta khtm kr diya maine...aap sbko ek suggestions h chahe kch b ho jaye apne man se chije khtm krne ka option hta kr dekho tb dekhna life kitni easy ho jati h...jb pyar ke bdle pyar toh gusse ke bdle gussa hi hona chahiye....hum log khud esko ganda bna dete h ye keh ke ki ab wo feelings ni rhi....mera ye view h ki agr maine kisi se pyar kiya h toh last tk krunga chahe wo sath ho ya na ho..
" Ye sb likhne ka sirf ek reason es bhul ki wajah se mai apni life ka sbse pyara rishta toh nhi bcha paya lekin aap sb readers se hath jod ke request h apna rishta bcha lena..rishte bazar me nhi milte h qki...mai haar gya hu lekin jo jo es ko pdh kr jeetega mjhe uski jeet me khud ki jeet nazar aaegi..
Aaj jb mai bimar tha toh umeed tha ki ek no. Hoga aisa jo mjhe baar fone fone krega preshan hoga mere liye...lekin jis insan se mai ye chah rha tha usne kiya b ....lekin na jane q aaj uske preshan hone me wo baat nhi thi..wo mza nhi tha...ha agr mai galat hu toh maaf krna...whi dusri traf ek aisa insan tha jisko mai nhi mna rha tha ki fone krey us insan ko b pta tha ki wo meri phli priority nhi h fir b usne aisa dikhaya ki mai uski phli priority...or mai uske liye likh rha hu usko toh ye b ni btaunga....khair ye difference of priority ho skti h..
Ek insan ne thoda sa dikhaya usey chinta h meri or ek insan ne bht dikhaya fir b mjhe intzar us thode se care ki thi...mere liye uski value bht jada thi....or shyd yhi hoti h feelings....bs yhi...
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