Now let stop the ridha....let move towards more concrete things...
Aaj metro me aa rha tha toh maine kisi ko ye khte hue suna ki yr uska pyar alag tha eska alag h...after hearing this a question arised in mah mind and that is "really the defination of love is subjective?...like is it really change from person to person...
So now let find the defination of love....
According to google, love is intense feeling of deep affection..now let try to understand this...
Like google is saying love is affection..like u r attached to someone deeply...fir ek question mind me aata h ki ek kutte se affection or ek insan se affection same hota h like...ki mai apne pet se pyar kru apni gf se pyar kru dono same hoga.. Obviously not... Obviously i will be more attached to my gf..so whats the thing which create the diffrence...
So i think affection is wrong term to describe love....
Ek baar meri gf ne ek letter me likha tha aaj hum, mai or tum se hum ho gye..ha sunne me ye bollywood dialogue lgta h...bt let understand ki wo kya khna chahti thi..she want to say ki aaj indiffrence ho gya h..tum me or mjhme..actually she is little bit correct..i think it is true love ki jb mai sochu ki.." ek pratha bcha hua h wo kha le ya mai kha lu koi frk ni pdta..mere account me kch paise h wo uspe khrch ho ya mjhpe koi frk ni pdta..koi mjhe galat khey aansu uske nikle..usko momos khilane ko metro card bechne chley jaye..paise na hone pr bhi utna hi khush rhay..mai success hou apni life me khushi usey miley...stage pe taali mjhe miley..kandhe uske unche ho jaye...so she was correct...aapko ye likhi hui chije impractical lg rhi hongi bt aisa hota h nd m saying that from my experience..it is love..jb tera mera bhul jao sirf hmara bolo...it is love jb aapki gf ko babu se jada bcha sunna psnd ho...so creating indiffrence between two people is love..
Authors view...
According to me love is little more den hum ho jana...ye hai kyi mauko pr khud ko bhul kr samne wale ki khushi dekhna...agr aap khud ko kisi or ke liye change kr skte ho toh wo true love...hai...or wo bs ek baar hi hoga..qki human species me agr ek insan kisi se sbse jada pyar krta h toh wo h khud se..insan khud ko bht chahta h bht jada..lekin fir b wo kisi or ke liye khud ko bdlne ko tyaar ho jata h toh whi hota h love...or insan aisa baar baar esliye ni kr skta qki khud ko bdlna muskil hota h namumkin hota hai..
For example koi aapka gussa seh rha h toh wo aapse bht pyar krta h..aisa nhi h wo aapse darta h balki wo ye sochta h ki gussa kr rha h toh kya hua pyar b toh mjhse krta h...thoda deep h smjhne ki koshish krta...
Suppose do log h x and y..maan lo kisi moment pe x ne gussa kiya y pe...y ko pta h x ki galti h usey es baat pe gussa ni krna chahiye bt fir bhi y accept krta h baat ko qki wo ye manta h ki x hi h jisne mjhse bht pyar kiya hai..or fact ye jb wo ye maan rha hota h toh bhi usey hurt ho rha hota h..bt fir wo sochta h es chot pe malham bhi x hi lgaega..khud ko niche gira kr kisi or ko khush dekhna hi pyar hota h..
Chahe wo gussa sehna ho ya kisi ka aapke liye rona ho(qki rona kisi ke liye khi na khi kamjori mani jati h ek insan ki lekin agr wo aapni kamjori b dikhane ko tyar h toh wo es baat se nhi dar rha h ki aap niche gir rhay ho esliye wo pyar hai..)
Koi apna ego gira de kisi ke liye wo hi pyar hai..sb ho fir b wo yaad rhay wo pyar hai..
Jb wo seedhiyo pe ladkhada jaye or aapki cheekh nikal jaye wo pyar hai...
Aapko chot lgey or jb jb aap ki chis ki aawaz nikle samne wale ka b gala bhar jaye wo pyar hai..
Wo kitni hi galtiya kr de aap gussa ho lekin fir b uske liye khade ho toh wo pyar hai..
Aap apna religion bhul jao uske liye wo pyar hai..
Khair author is being emotional so let stop it here...
Ha bs pyar dene ka naam hota h selfish hone ka nhi...or kamal ki chij ye h agr dono insan ye chij soche toh in the end dono ka fayada hoga...
Pyar bandhna nhi sikhata hai...or mjhse kisi ne kha ki koi kisi ki jaagir ni hoti mai manta hu...wo bilkul shi tha...plz give respect to ur love or ye b apne experience se keh rha hu..ab tk aap sbko lga hoga i m a perfect guy..bt sry to say m the one who loose the perfect love jst caz of my stupidity...
Ha ek or chij pyar sch me ek baar hi hota hai...aap keh se ek hi chij jisey aap jb past me thay usey perfect smjh ke krte thay whi chij dobara kisi or ke sath kaise perfect feeling ke sath kr skte h..
Love is pure...purity bs ek baar hoti h..
Yah i loose my perfect one...nd i dnt want anyone...its fact....nd it suggestion to all readers after breakup agr aap move on ho b gye ho toh b man se move on mat ho..kisi ko yaad krke krke rona jada acha h in compare kisi or se fake pyar kr lena..
Waiting for ur suggestions or comments...
Aaj metro me aa rha tha toh maine kisi ko ye khte hue suna ki yr uska pyar alag tha eska alag h...after hearing this a question arised in mah mind and that is "really the defination of love is subjective?...like is it really change from person to person...
So now let find the defination of love....
According to google, love is intense feeling of deep affection..now let try to understand this...
Like google is saying love is affection..like u r attached to someone deeply...fir ek question mind me aata h ki ek kutte se affection or ek insan se affection same hota h like...ki mai apne pet se pyar kru apni gf se pyar kru dono same hoga.. Obviously not... Obviously i will be more attached to my gf..so whats the thing which create the diffrence...
So i think affection is wrong term to describe love....
Ek baar meri gf ne ek letter me likha tha aaj hum, mai or tum se hum ho gye..ha sunne me ye bollywood dialogue lgta h...bt let understand ki wo kya khna chahti thi..she want to say ki aaj indiffrence ho gya h..tum me or mjhme..actually she is little bit correct..i think it is true love ki jb mai sochu ki.." ek pratha bcha hua h wo kha le ya mai kha lu koi frk ni pdta..mere account me kch paise h wo uspe khrch ho ya mjhpe koi frk ni pdta..koi mjhe galat khey aansu uske nikle..usko momos khilane ko metro card bechne chley jaye..paise na hone pr bhi utna hi khush rhay..mai success hou apni life me khushi usey miley...stage pe taali mjhe miley..kandhe uske unche ho jaye...so she was correct...aapko ye likhi hui chije impractical lg rhi hongi bt aisa hota h nd m saying that from my experience..it is love..jb tera mera bhul jao sirf hmara bolo...it is love jb aapki gf ko babu se jada bcha sunna psnd ho...so creating indiffrence between two people is love..
Authors view...
According to me love is little more den hum ho jana...ye hai kyi mauko pr khud ko bhul kr samne wale ki khushi dekhna...agr aap khud ko kisi or ke liye change kr skte ho toh wo true love...hai...or wo bs ek baar hi hoga..qki human species me agr ek insan kisi se sbse jada pyar krta h toh wo h khud se..insan khud ko bht chahta h bht jada..lekin fir b wo kisi or ke liye khud ko bdlne ko tyaar ho jata h toh whi hota h love...or insan aisa baar baar esliye ni kr skta qki khud ko bdlna muskil hota h namumkin hota hai..
For example koi aapka gussa seh rha h toh wo aapse bht pyar krta h..aisa nhi h wo aapse darta h balki wo ye sochta h ki gussa kr rha h toh kya hua pyar b toh mjhse krta h...thoda deep h smjhne ki koshish krta...
Suppose do log h x and y..maan lo kisi moment pe x ne gussa kiya y pe...y ko pta h x ki galti h usey es baat pe gussa ni krna chahiye bt fir bhi y accept krta h baat ko qki wo ye manta h ki x hi h jisne mjhse bht pyar kiya hai..or fact ye jb wo ye maan rha hota h toh bhi usey hurt ho rha hota h..bt fir wo sochta h es chot pe malham bhi x hi lgaega..khud ko niche gira kr kisi or ko khush dekhna hi pyar hota h..
Chahe wo gussa sehna ho ya kisi ka aapke liye rona ho(qki rona kisi ke liye khi na khi kamjori mani jati h ek insan ki lekin agr wo aapni kamjori b dikhane ko tyar h toh wo es baat se nhi dar rha h ki aap niche gir rhay ho esliye wo pyar hai..)
Koi apna ego gira de kisi ke liye wo hi pyar hai..sb ho fir b wo yaad rhay wo pyar hai..
Jb wo seedhiyo pe ladkhada jaye or aapki cheekh nikal jaye wo pyar hai...
Aapko chot lgey or jb jb aap ki chis ki aawaz nikle samne wale ka b gala bhar jaye wo pyar hai..
Wo kitni hi galtiya kr de aap gussa ho lekin fir b uske liye khade ho toh wo pyar hai..
Aap apna religion bhul jao uske liye wo pyar hai..
Khair author is being emotional so let stop it here...
Ha bs pyar dene ka naam hota h selfish hone ka nhi...or kamal ki chij ye h agr dono insan ye chij soche toh in the end dono ka fayada hoga...
Pyar bandhna nhi sikhata hai...or mjhse kisi ne kha ki koi kisi ki jaagir ni hoti mai manta hu...wo bilkul shi tha...plz give respect to ur love or ye b apne experience se keh rha hu..ab tk aap sbko lga hoga i m a perfect guy..bt sry to say m the one who loose the perfect love jst caz of my stupidity...
Ha ek or chij pyar sch me ek baar hi hota hai...aap keh se ek hi chij jisey aap jb past me thay usey perfect smjh ke krte thay whi chij dobara kisi or ke sath kaise perfect feeling ke sath kr skte h..
Love is pure...purity bs ek baar hoti h..
Yah i loose my perfect one...nd i dnt want anyone...its fact....nd it suggestion to all readers after breakup agr aap move on ho b gye ho toh b man se move on mat ho..kisi ko yaad krke krke rona jada acha h in compare kisi or se fake pyar kr lena..
Waiting for ur suggestions or comments...
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